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Love Redefined

Love Redefined

Say Thank You When Problems Hit You

Most of us having gone through schools must have experienced this. You submit your exam fee and then all of your classmates have received their exam admit cards but you. So you are worried. What if your fee was not accepted? Did something went wrong with the internal assessments? Did not the teacher forward your name or the school clerk missed to type your name in the list? Was your attendance percentage OK? And you pray to receive that admit card which would allow you to take your exam. And

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The Two Choices For Handling Problems

One of the greatest truths we need to understand and accept is that as long as we are alive we will be facing problems, challenges and difficulties. The question is what to do with them. We have two choices. First: To ignore all problems, difficulties and challenges and try to skip them. We may act as if problems do not exist. We choose to delay taking actions to solve them. We procrastinate tackling problems. The worst we think that problems will disappear themselves if we ignore them for a certain

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The Duality Within Us

We are a living miracle. We are made up of a spirit or soul and a body which are opposite in their properties to each other. The soul has no limits in time and space. Our bodies are limited. Similarly, inside of us there are two power hubs and sources of energy which are opposite in their properties as well. The first one is our internal inertia. Recalling from our earlier education in Physics, inertia is the property of matter to remain at rest or in motion given no external

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First Act Of Love To Yourself

The first act of love is a mental decision. You will, before taking any other action to grow, nurture and develop yourself, have to decide that you are not going to let yourself go wasted. To not let yourself go wasted you will have to become certain that you are worthy. To become certain you are worthy you will have to let this sink in your subconscious. To let that sink in your subconscious you will have to hear the same message from at least three different sources: i. from

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Love, Value and Time

Loving some one is considering him or her of value. Any thing that we consider of value, we spend time with it. Any thing that we spend time with, we start to know it more. The more we know it more, the more we begin to accept it. If  you say I love my children, only ask how much time I do spend with them. Do not let it drop to less than full 5 hours of quality time with your kids and that is for working fathers and mothers.

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Our Unique Ability

We have a capability so unique that it lets us stand apart from the rest of animal kingdom. We can imagine ourselves as separate from our thoughts. Try doing this. Imagine, that you are watching yourself from the other corner of the room. Now further imagine that you are watching your imagined “” image”” from outside the window. You are watching yourself watching yourself.

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Then say nothing !

We two went to Pir Sohawa. It was a climb up hill. It was sunny and yet crisp. The early hours sun of the day was rising and air was starting to warm up. We left the restaurants and the rush spots behind and kept on moving on the other side of the hill where silence resided. On a lonely clearing on grass and a few stones around, we sat there. Tired. Exhausted. We smiled at each other and had water and then citrus from my shoulder bag since I

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