Love yourself first
If you cannot start loving yourself, you cannot love others.
If you cannot take out time to exercise and cannot take time out to save your health, if you cannot spend quality time of 3 to 4 hours a week with your kids or with your mother, if you cannot listen to your subordinate without interrupting him, if you cannot take your wife to her parents witout a frown on your face, if you cannot wait patiently for some one to deposit his bill in a queue, if you cannot apologize without being insecure, if you cannot be honest with yourself…. perhaps you are not that very ready to love some one else.
To love some one other than you, you have to learn to love yourself first.